{"id":6521,"date":"2023-04-25T12:48:24","date_gmt":"2023-04-25T10:48:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lori.hr\/?page_id=6521"},"modified":"2023-07-19T20:46:52","modified_gmt":"2023-07-19T18:46:52","slug":"za-roditelje","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/lori.hr\/en\/za-roditelje\/","title":{"rendered":"Za roditelje"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"6521\" class=\"elementor elementor-6521\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1e67902 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"1e67902\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b543055 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"b543055\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6c4051b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"6c4051b\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f26e853 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"f26e853\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-59dfa98 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"59dfa98\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Za roditelje<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6bf0023 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"6bf0023\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3f058eb elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"3f058eb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-022fd1c e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"022fd1c\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6e54d2a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6e54d2a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><em><strong>NOTE:<\/strong> This material has been produced within the Family Without Prejudice campaign in 2007, so some of the information current at the time is now outdated and some terminology has changed. We, nevertheless, think that the texts still offer useful information and advice and would like to encourage you to read them.<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f375eaf e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"f375eaf\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d4fb801 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"d4fb801\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f6da8ce elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f6da8ce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">RODITELJI I OKOLINA<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e3f6c13 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e3f6c13\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Za roditelje je coming out djeteta te\u017eak i odva\u017ean proces. Kako \u0107e se taj proces odraziti na njih ovisi i o tome koliko \u0107e se sami potruditi te koliko otvoreni mogu biti.<\/p><p>Mnogi roditelji\/\u010dlanovi-ce obitelji nastoje zadr\u017eati ovu \u201etajnu\u201c unutar obitelji. Roditelji\/obitelji nemaju podr\u0161ku okoline (dru\u0161tva) i strahuju od svog coming outa drugima. Kod nas, ve\u0107ina roditelja prolazi sama kroz ovaj proces (od prvog \u0161oka, preko krivnje, do po\u010detka prihva\u0107anja). U Hrvatskoj nije dovoljno razvijen sistem podr\u0161ke, nema grupa za podr\u0161ku za roditelje (\u010dlanove\/ice obitelji) LGBT osoba, te nema dovoljno literature ili informativnog materijala na hrvatskom jeziku.<br \/><br \/>Ako su roditelji u fazi postepenog (ili potpunog) prihva\u0107anja djeteta, roditelji polako po\u010dinju shva\u0107ati kako je bilo djetetu razgovarati o svojoj seksualnoj orijentaciji ili rodnom identitetu\/izra\u017eavanju, jer se u ovoj fazi ve\u0107 polako po\u010dinje stvarati pritisak oko njihovog vlastitog coming outa. Sama po sebi name\u0107u se pitanja poput: Kako se pona\u0161ati s ostalim \u010dlanovima\/cama obitelji? Da li im re\u0107i? Da li re\u0107i prijateljima? \u0160to \u0107e susjedi re\u0107i? Kome re\u0107i, na koji na\u010din, kako se nositi s raznim pitanjima okoline?<br \/><br \/>Odluku da se ka\u017ee \u010dlanovima\/cama obitelji, prijateljima, susjedima, itd. treba donijeti u dogovoru s djetetom; potrebno je razgovarati s njom\/njim i vidjeti kako se ono osje\u0107a po pitanju otkrivanja njegovog\/njezinog identiteta.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-520e76e e-con-full e-flex e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"520e76e\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-517f662 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"517f662\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"532\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/lori.hr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/I-love-my-gay-son.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-6524\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lori.hr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/I-love-my-gay-son.jpg 532w, https:\/\/lori.hr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/I-love-my-gay-son-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 532px) 100vw, 532px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a528a30 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"a528a30\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-802355a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"802355a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Preporu\u010da se da roditelji razgovaraju o seksualnoj orijentaciji i\/ili rodnom identitetu, odnosno rodnom izra\u017eavanju djeteta s drugima tada kada su sigurni u vlastite osje\u0107aje i informirani o ovoj temi. Tako \u0107e najbolje mo\u0107i pomo\u0107i drugima da shvate da su predrasude protiv homo\/biseksualnosti i\/ili transrodnosti zasnovane na neznanju i strahu. U suo\u010davanju s okolinom, vrlo je vjerojatno da \u0107e se roditelji susresti s nerazumijevanjem i diskriminacijom, osje\u0107ajem straha od negativnog izra\u017eavanja predrasuda, osje\u0107ajem srama, \u017eeljom da se izbjegne ova tema, potrebom da drugi razumiju, itd. Va\u017eno je da roditelji budu pripremljeni na to te da nerazumijevanje drugih ne utje\u010de ote\u017eavaju\u0107e na njihov proces prihva\u0107anja djeteta.<\/p><p>Roditelji se trebaju osje\u0107ati ugodno kada se radi o seksualnoj orijentaciji i rodnom identitetu\/izra\u017eavanju svoje djece. Trebaju osje\u0107ati ponos svojim djetetom,\u00a0 hrabrost da ne skrivaju njezin\/njegov LGBT identitet i razviti na\u010dine kako mogu podr\u017eati svoju djecu. Unato\u010d pozitivnim promjenama u stavovima i pona\u0161anju prema LGBT osobama, roditeljima ne\u0107e biti lako kada \u010duju pogrdne i bezosje\u0107ajne komentare upu\u0107ene djetetu. Za roditelje je va\u017eno da znaju\u00a0 da je ono \u0161to drugi misle daleko manje va\u017eno njihovom djetetu od onoga \u0161to oni misle. Roditeljska podr\u0161ka, ljubav i razumijevanje, usprkos mogu\u0107em po\u010detnom \u0161oku i neznanju, odlu\u010duju\u0107i su za ispunjeniji, sretniji i slobodniji \u017eivot djeteta.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-63633a2 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"63633a2\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-045bb4d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"045bb4d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Istra\u017eivanje provedeno me\u0111u heteroseksualnim roditeljima i ro\u0111acima koji imaju dijete ili \u010dlana\/icu obitelji koje je gej mu\u0161karac, lezbijka, biseksualna osoba.\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><br \/><br \/>Rezultati pokazuju sljede\u0107e:<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4e15079 elementor-icon-list--layout-traditional elementor-list-item-link-full_width elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon-list\" data-id=\"4e15079\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon-list.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-icon-list-items\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-dot-circle\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">podupiru prija\u0161nja istra\u017eivanja koja ukazuje da je homofobija u vrlo bliskom odnosu, vezana je i podudara se s tradicionalnim rodnim\/spolnim ulogama i stereotipima<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-dot-circle\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">religioznost roditelja i \u010dlanova\/ica obitelji kao i vrijeme koje je pro\u0161lo od kad roditelji znaju za seksualnu orijentaciju djeteta povezani su s razinom njihove homofobije. \u0160to du\u017ee osoba zna za djetetovu seksualnu orijentaciju, to je manje homofobi\u010dna.<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-dot-circle\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">roditelji s izra\u017eenom homofobijom su oni kod kojih su zna\u010dajno izra\u017eene rodne\/spolne uloge i stereotipi vezani uz njih; koji su vi\u0161e religiozni i konzervativni te su manje vremena upoznati s orijentacijom djeteta<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-dot-circle\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">lezbijke, gej i biseksualne osobe kojima su roditelji upoznati s njihovom seksualnom orijentacijom izvje\u0161tavaju o boljim i pozitivnijim odnosima s roditeljima u odnosu na one kojima roditelji nisu upoznati<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5e23e4c e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"5e23e4c\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0bc4205 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"0bc4205\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Kako podr\u017eati svoje dijete (ili \u010dlana\/icu) obitelji  koje je lezbijka, gej mu\u0161karac, biseksualna ili transrodna osoba<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-61d2d7d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"61d2d7d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Ono \u0161to svaki roditelj, \u010dlan\/ica obitelji ili prijatelj LGBT osobe mora imati na umu je da je otkrivanje seksualne orijentacije ili rodnog\/spolnog identiteta proces koji traje. Potrebno je vrijeme da sve \u201esjedne\u201c na svoje mjesto. Ne postoji pravi ili krivi na\u010din kako o ovome razgovarati ili kako se nositi s tim, ali svakako je dobro preispitati svoje osje\u0107aje i o njima razgovarati koliko god bilo te\u0161ko ili neugodno, nikako ih skrivati ili poricati.<br \/>U po\u010detku je mogu\u0107e da se u roditeljima ili \u010dlanovima\/cama obitelji pojavi osje\u0107aj gubitka, sli\u010dan onome kao kad izgubite blisku osobu. Me\u0111utim, ne radi se o gubitku osobe, jedina stvar koju se gubi je slika o toj osobi i razumijevanje za koje se mislilo da postoji. Iako ovaj osje\u0107aj \u201egubitka\u201c mo\u017ee biti jako te\u017eak, zapravo, \u010dlanovi\/ce obitelji su dobili\u00a0 priliku za novo, dublje i istinitije razumijevanje nekoga do koga im je stalo.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-beee863 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"beee863\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Uvidite povjerenje koje vam dijete iskazuje<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-981dd87 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"981dd87\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Dijete ili \u010dlan\/ica obitelji je, mo\u017eda u strahu od va\u0161e osude i prezira, vjerojatno na\u00a0 mukotrpan na\u010din uspjelo da to ostane skriveno sve do ove faze. Njegova odluka da s vama bude otvoreno i iskreno zahtijevala je izuzetno mnogo hrabrosti, ljubavi, povjerenja i predanosti koje osje\u0107a povezano s vama. Va\u0161a po\u010detna reakcija \u0107e vjerojatno biti \u0161ok, ali sada je na vama da usporedite vlastitu hrabrost, predanost, povjerenje i ljubav prema osobi iz obitelji sa svojim strahovima i predrasudama.<br \/>Samim time \u0161to vam se dijete ili \u010dlan\/ica obitelji povjerilo, to zna\u010di da je primilo va\u0161u poruku da ste tu za njega i da vam se mo\u017ee obratiti. Recite djetetu da vam puno zna\u010di \u0161to mo\u017ee biti iskreno\/a s vama, podr\u017eite ju\/ga u \u017eelji da vam prestane lagati i skrivati se, iako se mo\u017eda u tom prvom trenutku borite s vlastitim predbacivanjem. To \u0107e otvoriti vrata daljnjoj komunikaciji, podr\u017eati dobar odnos s djetetom, te potaknuti proces prihva\u0107anja i razumijevanja.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-383af3d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"383af3d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Pitajte \u0161to vas zanima<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9c919ae elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9c919ae\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Nemojte osu\u0111ivati ve\u0107 postavljajte pitanja koja vas zanimaju. Iako se u prvom trenutku svaka rije\u010d mo\u017ee \u010diniti neprikladnom i zbunjuju\u0107om, ovo je dobar na\u010din kojim mo\u017eete premostiti vlastite barijere i pru\u017eiti osobi osje\u0107aj da vam je stalo. Ako vas zanima pitajte \u0161to za nju\/njega zna\u010di njezina\/njegova (npr.) biseksualnost i sl. Na taj na\u010din olak\u0161at \u0107e se napetost ovog razgovora i vi \u0107ete dobiti priliku bolje razumjeti njezino\/njegovo iskustvo kao npr. biseksualne osobe.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c847ef5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"c847ef5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Izrazite svoje prihva\u0107anje<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f250392 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f250392\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>U otkrivanju svog LGBT identiteta, osoba \u0107e biti koncentrirana na va\u0161e rije\u010di i reakcije. Mo\u017eda \u0107ete re\u0107i ne\u0161to \u010dime \u0107ete ju\/ga udaljiti, izraziti neutemeljene strahove, vlastite predrasude ili sl. Ne odustajte, recite osobi da vam poku\u0161a pomo\u0107i da razumijete.<br \/>Prihvatite izazov da odete preko granica nau\u010denih stereotipa o seksualnim orijentacijama i rodnim identitetima\/izra\u017eavanjima. Poka\u017eite prihva\u0107anje kroz afirmativne komentare, \u017eelju da saznate vi\u0161e i razumijete, otvoreno razgovarajte i o onim dijelovima gdje osje\u0107ate strah i nerazumijevanje, ne prosu\u0111ujte napre\u010dac; stvorite prostor za me\u0111usobno uva\u017eavanje.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8b3e69b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8b3e69b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Ovo je tako\u0111er prilika da budete uzor drugim roditeljima i \u010dlanovima\/cama obitelji. \u0160to vi\u0161e ljudi pokazuje prihva\u0107anje i po\u0161tovanje prema razli\u010ditim seksualnim orijentacijama i rodnim\/spolnim identitetima, to je lak\u0161e drugima nau\u010diti \u010diniti to isto.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e3b03f9 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"e3b03f9\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3e22c6a elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3e22c6a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Korisni savjeti o tome \u0161to je po\u017eeljno, a \u0161to nepo\u017eeljno \u010diniti kod saznavanja o homo\/biseksualnosti ili transrodnosti djeteta, \u010dlana\/ice obitelji (ali i prijatelja).<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dd6fc36 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"dd6fc36\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3c0cf83 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"3c0cf83\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"127\" height=\"175\" src=\"https:\/\/lori.hr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/finger_up.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-6526\" alt=\"\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cfb25f8 elementor-icon-list--layout-traditional elementor-list-item-link-full_width elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon-list\" data-id=\"cfb25f8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon-list.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-icon-list-items\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-check\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Poka\u017eite osobi da vam je stalo da znate o njenom \u017eivotu i iskustvima i otvoreno razgovarajte s njom\/njim o svemu \u0161to vas mu\u010di<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-check\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Informirajte se o LGBTIQ tematici, nau\u010dite vi\u0161e o \u017eivotu LGBT osoba; koristite literaturu, izvore na Internetu, materijale udruga koje se zala\u017eu za prava LGBTIQ osoba...<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-check\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Ne ustru\u010davajte se porazgovarati sa stru\u010dnom osobom ako osje\u0107ate da \u0107e vam to pomo\u0107i; psiholozi\/ginje bi vam trebali\/ pru\u017eiti objektivne informacije<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-check\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Prihvatite odgovornost za va\u0161e negativne reakcije, ne okrivljujte za njih dijete ili \u010dlana\/icu obitelji<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-check\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Budite podr\u0161ka va\u0161em djetetu, \u010dlanu\/ici obitelji (ili prijatelju\/ici), razvijte povjerenje poma\u017eu\u0107i joj\/mu da uspje\u0161no \u017eivi svoj vlastiti \u017eivotni put<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-check\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Ne sramite se homo\/biseksualnosti ili transrodnosti osobe iz va\u0161e obitelji, razvijte ponos i poka\u017eite razumijevanje<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-check\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Ako se osje\u0107ate povrije\u0111enima ili ljutima, otkrijte koji se osje\u0107aji kriju u pozadini ovoga i radite na njihovom razumijevanju i smanjivanju<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-check\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Ispitajte va\u0161e stavove o homo\/biseksualnosti ili transrodnosti i ulo\u017eite napor da va\u0161a negativna mi\u0161ljenja i predrasude promijenite kroz informiranje i sl.<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-check\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Poka\u017eite podr\u0161ku na na\u010din da \u0107ete se otvoreno suprotstaviti homo\/bi\/transfobiji u okolini i dru\u0161tvu<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-check\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">\u0160titite svoje dijete ili \u010dlana\/icu obitelji od diskriminacije<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-check\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Po\u0161tujte njegovo\/njezino pravo da voli i bude voljen\/a<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-32dad1f elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"32dad1f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"127\" height=\"176\" src=\"https:\/\/lori.hr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/finger_down.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-6525\" alt=\"\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-552635e elementor-icon-list--layout-traditional elementor-list-item-link-full_width elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon-list\" data-id=\"552635e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon-list.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-icon-list-items\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-times\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Ne okrivljavajte svoje dijete, \u010dlana\/icu obitelji ili njegovo\/njezino dru\u0161tvo zbog va\u0161ih vlastitih osje\u0107aja<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-times\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Ne po\u017eurujte proces razumijevanja seksualnosti ili rodnog\/spolnog identiteta- izra\u017eavanja va\u0161eg djeteta ili \u010dlana\/ice obitelji<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-times\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Ne iznosite stavove da s va\u0161im djetetom ili \u010dlanom\/icom obitelji ne\u0161to nije u redu radi druk\u010dije seksualne orijentacije ili rodnog\/spolnog identiteta-izra\u017eavanja.<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-times\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Ne kritizirajte ga\/ju zato \u0161to je druk\u010diji\/a od vas<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-times\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Ne poku\u0161avajte prisiljavati dijete ili \u010dlan\/icu obitelji da se pona\u0161a kako biste vi to htjeli<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-times\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Nemojte okrivljavati sebe<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-times\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Nemojte zahtijevati da va\u0161e dijete ili \u010dlan\/ica obitelji \u017eive u skladu s va\u0161om idejom o tome kakav mu\u0161karac ili \u017eena trebaju biti<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-times\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Ne diskriminirajte ju\/ga<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-times\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Nemojte ju\/ga onemogu\u0107avati da ima veze s osobom istog spola i ne poku\u0161avajte raskidati te veze<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-times\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Ne inzistirajte na tome da su va\u0161i moralni stavovi jedini ispravni<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-times\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Nemojte ignorirati njezinu\/njegovu potrebu da razgovara s vama<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f2c7797 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"f2c7797\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6b3e872 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6b3e872\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Kako bi ispitali vlastito prihva\u0107anje va\u0161eg djeteta (ili \u010dlana\/ice obitelji) koje\u00a0 je\u00a0 lezbijka, gej mu\u0161karac, biseksualna ili\u00a0 transrodna osoba, postavite si nekoliko pitanja\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3c05428 elementor-icon-list--layout-traditional elementor-list-item-link-full_width elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon-list\" data-id=\"3c05428\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon-list.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-icon-list-items\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-check\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Da li vam je neugodno u dru\u0161tvu partnera ili partnerice va\u0161eg djeteta ili \u010dlana\/ice obitelji?<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fca2649 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"fca2649\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Da li bi vam bilo ugodnije da je partner\/partnerica suprotnog spola? Kako se osje\u0107ate ako je va\u0161e dijete sa svojim\/om partnerom\/icom zagrljeno u va\u0161oj blizini? Smeta li vas ako otvoreno pokazuju svoje osje\u0107aje ili pri\u010daju o njihovoj vezi? Ukoliko vam je neugodno, zapitajte se za\u0161to je to tako.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-142bdf2 elementor-icon-list--layout-traditional elementor-list-item-link-full_width elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon-list\" data-id=\"142bdf2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon-list.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-icon-list-items\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-check\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Da li vam smeta otvorenost (po pitanju seksualne orijentacije ili rodnog\/spolnog identiteta) va\u0161eg djeteta ili \u010dlana\/ice obitelji?<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4e091ac elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4e091ac\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Da li vam je neugodno ako se va\u0161e dijete otvoreno identificira kao lezbijka, gej mu\u0161karac, biseksualna ili transrodna osoba? Mislite li da se na takav na\u010din \u201erazme\u0107e\u201c svojom seksualno\u0161\u0107u i rodnim\/spolnim identitetom? Ako da, promislite za\u0161to tako ne razmi\u0161ljate i u odnosu na heteroseksualnu populaciju. Vjerojatno to ne primje\u0107ujete &#8211; heteroseksualne osobe se u javnosti dr\u017ee za ruke, ljube, u svakoj reklami heteroseksualni par reklamira najnoviji parfem, odje\u0107u ili sli\u010dno, gotovo svaki film baziran je na heteroseksualnim odnosima, heteroseksualne osobe otvoreno pri\u010daju o svojim vezama, spominju partnere\/ice&#8230; Bi li to nazvali razmetanjem? Dr\u017ee li te osobe svoju heteroseksualnost za sebe i poku\u0161avaju li je sakriti? Ako ne, za\u0161to bi onda osobe homo\/biseksualne orijentacije i transrodne osobe trebale to skrivati?<br \/>Da li vam je neugodno kad se va\u0161e dijete ili \u010dlan\/ica obitelji ne pona\u0161a i ne izra\u017eava u skladu s rodnim ulogama dodijeljenim njegovu\/njezinu biolo\u0161kom spolu? Da li osje\u0107ate sram zbog toga \u0161to va\u0161e dijete ili \u010dlan\/ica obitelji ima potrebu modificirati\/promijeniti spol?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-063834a elementor-icon-list--layout-traditional elementor-list-item-link-full_width elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon-list\" data-id=\"063834a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon-list.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-icon-list-items\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-check\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Mislite li da bi trebalo ozakoniti homoseksualne brakove?<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-966c878 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"966c878\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Po zadnjim istra\u017eivanjima u Hrvatskoj , vi\u0161e od 50 % roditelja smatra da njihovo dijete ukoliko bi bilo homo\/biseksualne orijentacije ne bi trebalo imati ista prava kao oni sami (pravo na brak, usvajanje djece, i sl.). Ovakvi stavovi duboko su vezani za na\u0161u dru\u0161tvenu realnost, usa\u0111ena su nam pravila i norme o tome \u0161to je brak i kako bi on trebao izgledati (zajednica mu\u0161karca i \u017eene, slu\u017ei prokreaciji i podizanju djece), itd. Na sre\u0107u, mnoge dr\u017eave prepoznale su diskriminaciju u zakonima te ih po\u010dele mijenjati kako bi pravo na brak bilo omogu\u0107eno svim ljudima, bez obzira na spol, rod ili seksualnu orijentaciju.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a68520a elementor-icon-list--layout-traditional elementor-list-item-link-full_width elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon-list\" data-id=\"a68520a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon-list.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-icon-list-items\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-check\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Osje\u0107ate li nelagodu pri pomisli na seksualni odnos izme\u0111u dvije osobe istog spola?<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7fed2ba elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7fed2ba\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\u010covjek je seksualno bi\u0107e i nema neke razlike izme\u0111u heteroseksualnih i homoseksualnih osoba u iskazivanju i izra\u017eavanju svoje seksualnosti. Seksualni odnos je prirodno iskazivanje ljubavi, privr\u017eenosti i predanosti izme\u0111u dvije osobe. Razmislite o tome za\u0161to pravite razliku (ako pravite). Zapravo bi bilo \u010dudno kada bi homoseksualna osoba rekla da ne \u017eeli voditi ljubav s osobom koju voli, jer nekim ljudima to nije u redu.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e1ddda1 elementor-icon-list--layout-traditional elementor-list-item-link-full_width elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon-list\" data-id=\"e1ddda1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon-list.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-icon-list-items\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-check\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Mo\u017eete li bez problema koristiti rije\u010di poput \u00ablezbijka\u00bb, \u00abgej\u00bb, \u00abtransrodna osoba\u00bb, \u00abqueer\u00bb?<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4a0df95 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4a0df95\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Ako vam ove rije\u010di stvaraju nelagodu i izbjegavate ih koristiti, razmislite za\u0161to. Vjerojatno je to zato jer imaju neku negativnu konotaciju duboko u vama. Da li zaista povezujete va\u0161e dijete ili \u010dlana\/icu obitelji s takvim negativnim konotacijama? Ova uvjerenja su kulturno-sociolo\u0161ki nametnuta, a u temeljima im je diskriminacija i nema potrebe da ih vi dalje reproducirate, budu\u0107i su ona sasvim pogre\u0161na.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e346adf e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"e346adf\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ea3886b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ea3886b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Na kraju, imajte na umu va\u017enu \u010dinjenicu &#8211; ni\u0161ta se ne mora mijenjati sa saznanjem o homo\/biseksualnosti ili transrodnosti va\u0161eg djeteta ili \u010dlana\/ice obitelji, osim ako joj\/mu ne poku\u0161ate silom nametnuti va\u0161u viziju budu\u0107nosti. Ni\u0161ta se ne mora uni\u0161titi u odnosu s njom\/njim &#8211; osim ako ne dozvolite da bude uni\u0161teno. Ako postoji \u00abproblem\u00bb, on nije u seksualnoj orijentaciji ili rodnom\/spolnom identitetu, odnosno izra\u017eavanju va\u0161eg djeteta ili \u010dlana\/ice obitelji, ve\u0107 u va\u0161em razmi\u0161ljanju &#8211; na vama je da ga nadi\u0111ete. 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